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Curious Kids - The Value of Questions by Beverley Paine "The true test of intelligence is not how much we know how to do, but how to behave when we don't know what to do." John Holt, How Children Fail "Judge others by their questions rather than by their answers." Voltaire "Reason can answer questions , but imagination has to ask them." Dr. Ralph Gerard Do you encourage your children to ask questions? Curious children are quick and enthusiastic learners. Although curiosity is valued it isn't encouraged. Ever wondered why? People find comfort in being similar: this is the cornerstone of socialisation. An unfortunate victim of the need to be more alike than different is the art of asking questions. From an early age we're discouraged from asking too many questions. Parents will happily and collectively moan about the 'why' stage of their toddler's lives, glad when it is all over and the children are no longer wide-eyed and curious, wanting to know as much as they can about everything they see and touch and feel, having at last conformed to being content with a little knowledge and understanding. We learn early that this is all the intelligence we need to get by and be accepted by those around us. Few people, even highly successful people, are comfortable asking questions. And most don't ask good questions, those that solicit the information needed. We rarely think through our questions before uttering them, and as a result often wallow around in a mire of miscommunication, needing to ask a series of clarifying questions to get the answers we need. Children aren't born with the ability to ask quality questions, and parents and education do very little to develop that skill. Our fear of the unknown leads us to do the same things over and over while hoping for a different result. When little children ask the same question it's not because they are hoping for a different answer: it's because they don't have the skills to ask a different question. This could be due to a limited vocabulary or lack of understanding of complex concepts or lack of experience. Instead of finding their repetitious questions tedious, it's our role as parents and educators to help them learn how to ask the questions that are floating about in their heads. Good questions open doors and move us forward in our learning quickly. Sometimes a question will make an impossible thing possible, or turn a failing situation into a success. Good questions stretch minds and make them grow. And this is what makes learning exciting and fun. When your child asks 'Why?' instead of offering a quick and easy answer, open up the question. "What made you ask that question?" might lead to the answer the child actually wants. Of course, there are plenty of times when a child needs or is happy with a direct and simple answer. By learning how to ask useful questions parents can aid the children in encouraging creative and imaginative thought, making inferences and connecting concepts. Thoughtful questions can also help children increase awareness and develop critical thinking processes. In this way we help our children explore deeper levels of knowing, thinking, and understanding.
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Pioneering members of the home education movement in Australia, Beverley and Robin Paine are passionate advocates of true educational choice for families. They began homeschooling their children in 1986 and three years later started the South Australian Home Based Learners network.
Beverley wrote Getting Started with Homeschooling in 1995-97 and since then continues to write books and booklets on home education. She balances spending time helping home educators with working in her garden and renovating her home, as well as continuing to build her collection of writing on a variety of homeschooling subjects. Beverley maintains an extensive collection of websites as well as several Yahoo groups supporting families teaching their children at home.
In 2007 Beverley joined the HEA and was a committee member for three years during which time she edited and produced the HEA Newsletter, Stepping Stones for Home Educators magazine, annual Resource Directory and other HEA publications.
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